Inspirational Kick

Wednesday, 27 June 2018

Problems Make You Stronger

kalyani bhawsar June 27, 2018 0 Comments

Hi,

You can say problem is the another name for life. There is no person in the world who hasn't face any problem in his life.

So, when you know it is the complementary part of your life, why not focus on solving the problem instead of getting worried about it.

Remember the time when you were a student and there comes a out of syllabus question in your exam, what would you do.? Try to solve the problem in spite of focusing on the situation.

So, learn from yourself, your past, and try your best to solve your problems and not focus on why it is happening to you.

Sometimes the best lessons in life comes from this problem solving attitude.

Be ready to face any type of challenges and solve it like a pro.

Wednesday, 9 May 2018

Searching For Peace

kalyani bhawsar May 09, 2018 0 Comments

I most of the day live alone. There is no one the home to talk with me. There is noise around me only the cooler or fan, the drilling machine (work on the side of my society), pigeons.

But what is the most disturbing part of my life, is my mind; which keeps on talking the whole day. It never stops. The time I wake up till the time I sleep, it keeps on chatting with me.

The time I spend with my mind talking useless things, is just waste of my precious time. I want peace, I want to get rid of it, I want to use my time productively.

What I observed is, it only stops for the time when I am learning something or doing out some productive work in which I have to use my brain and which interests me.

Since then I decided that I should spend most of my day in reading or doing the work which keeps me intact; intact in the present moment. Because when my mind talks with me, I move to either the past or the future moments. Thinking about what has happened in the past or what is going to be happened in the future.

This is where I got peace. Living my life in my own way, cancelling out the voices of others, the voice of the mind and just listening to my inner voice. Trying out new things, Experimenting with my life, finding out my purpose, my love , my passion for something that I can spend my whole life living Peacefully.

Saturday, 28 April 2018

Overcoming The Fear Of Socializing

kalyani bhawsar April 28, 2018 0 Comments

Hi,

We human being consider ourself as social animal, that means one cannot spend all his life alone. Then also there are most of the people are Introverts, like to spend their time with himself. But many of the extroverts prefer to spend their time alone. The reason can be many like :

Criticism : Society nowadays have developed the habit of criticizing. Whatever you are doing, people around will definitely criticize you.
Gossiping : Some of the people not like gossiping and they also have the fear that people will also talk about him.
Judgemental : Yes, one of the fear is how people will judge you, what they think of you, Opinions of other, etc.
Formality : You have to be formal when you are with others. You can not be just you. One have to be sincere, disciplined, have to follow manners and etiquette.

These are some of the reasons which I felt and even experienced.

But One thing I observed is that the fear of socializing is more when one is going through a bad phase in life.

One should ignore all the above happenings and overcome the fear and just enjoy your time when you are with others.

You cannot control others thoughts and what others are saying or going to say, what you can control is your behavior and attitude towards it. Let others do their job and you should focus on you.

One should not give the remote control of one's life to others and them control him.

So, ignore others, only take in what you think is beneficial for you, take the criticism in positive way and try to be just you, do not change yourself for others.

Good Luck.

Tuesday, 24 April 2018

BE A LIFE LONG LEARNER

kalyani bhawsar April 24, 2018 0 Comments

I am a huge fan of Warren Buffett, the third richest person in the world. I follow him religiously. Warren Buffett, aged 87, himself revealed his secret to success is he reads 500 pages daily. I know he is an extraordinary man. I am not saying you to read like him, but to learn from him. He, at this age, gives so much importance to learning, so why can't we?

A life long learner means a person who keeps himself updated and focus on continuously improving himself, no matter of his age, background or educational qualification. The KEY to success is to Keep Yourself Updated.

Let me explain you with an example. It has been 19 years since the evolution of smart phones. People are learning to use it to their advantage, it means they are updating themselves with new generation technologies. There are a lot a developments going on in IT sector. Entrepreneurs are implementing it to grow their businesses.

Here are some ways you can do to keep yourself updated:

Learning is not just related to your academical education but here learning is in every aspect of life. Learn from your mistakes. It may be full of regrets and failure. What it's use if you repeat the mistakes over again. Instead learn from your mistake and commit yourself that you are not going to repeat it again.

You should also learn from the mistakes of others at nil cost. Analyse others, try to put yourself in others shoes, think what they might do instead. Sharing with others, at least with your family and friends, whatever mistakes you have been done and whatever you learn from it, can save them also from repeating it.

Commit yourself to learn at least one single new thing daily. Today, we have the most powerful tool in our hand and that is a mobile phone with an Internet connection. So, why not use it to learn something new daily. You can subscribe to wikipedia's "Featured Article" list. It mails you a new article daily. So, start now, be curios to learn something new.

We should also try reading "Non Fictional Books" , books based on some other person's life, you can get inspired from it, you can get to learn from experience of others and many more things.

I recently met with a women, Rohini Kondvikar, who started her CA journey at the age of 40. You might asking "Is she mad or what?", "Do some one studies at this age?", "What is she going to get from doing it now?" .
This shows her Passion, her dream to become a Chartered Accountant in her life. Despite of the age, despite of all the hurdles in her life, she is on her way of fulfilling her dreams. Many people get this opportunity to make their dreams come true, but with the fear of failure, fear of others opinion, they gave up. She is a true inspirational to me and you, that there is no age limit to learning and to fulfil ones dream.

You might be wondering, why am I stressing so much on learning. There are many benefits of it such as:

It helps you to grow in your life. Growth is all about continuous development and improvements. So, improve your life by improving your learning skills.

Learning also helps you to improves your quality of life. Try to analyse your life, hat you have done so far, what you have achieved and lost and figure it out your contribution to it.

It will helps you to make your network more vast and stronger. Share your inspiring stories with others, share your learning through social media, showcasing yourself will make people like you, be a role model to others.

It will make your mind sharp, increases your critical thinking ability. Read newspaper daily. Be aware of your mental processes. Make yourself more knowledgeable than yesterday.

Competition has increased so much nowadays. To compete with others and to continue the race you have to a step ahead than others, which can only be possible through keeping yourself updating and well award.

Being an Investor, I must say this, the best investment you can make is to invest in yourself. Try to be a role model to others, your children, siblings, friends. Commit yourself to learn something new everyday. Do Self Analysis, find out your flaws and work upon it.

At the end I would like to say, life is like a business, if you cannot keep it updating, it will not generate higher returns.

So, Learn Long, Live Long,

Thanks.

Tuesday, 13 March 2018

Change Your Life With Morning Rituals

kalyani bhawsar March 13, 2018 0 Comments

I have read it somewhere that the best thing in life is to change someone's life for better. Here in this article I am also trying the same.

Let me first start with the meaning of morning ritual: a morning ritual is something that you do daily as a part of your daily morning.

Most of the people nowadays start their morning by checking whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter etc. These things will give you an insight of what is happening in others life. But have you thought even once that it is your life and the your priority should be your life and hence you should start your day with something that is beneficial for you.

Most of the successful persons in the world have their own Morning Rituals. They like to start their in the best suited to them.

The one question that you should ask yourself first in the morning is "what good I am going to do today to make my life better than yesterday?".

Here I am going to give you some tips that you can follow as your morning rituals to start your day in the best possible way.

SILENCE: practice silence or you can say meditation daily at least for 10 minutes.
DRINK WATER: When you wake up in the morning your body gets dehydrated and to give a kick start your morning you need water. Water gives you a boost of energy plus keeps you hydrated.
EXERCISE: Everyone of us know that it is important for us to exercise daily but very few of us follow it. So, why not start it today itself. There's a famous saying "jab jago tab savera".
TO DO LIST: Plan your day in the morning is the best way to organize your life. Create a to do list of what work you are going to do today.
3 MOST IMPORTANT TASK: Ask yourself what are the three tasks that you should complete today.
READ: Read at least for 10 to 20 minutes daily.
WRITE: you can also develop a habit of writing a journal daily.
GRATITUDE: Practice gratitude first thing in the morning would be a great way to start your day with positivity.

Try it at least. Trying anything new will make you better or give you a chance to think about how can you make improvements in your life.

7 Life Changing Principles of Success

kalyani bhawsar March 13, 2018 0 Comments

Hi,

Everyone of us want to get successful in our life. Getting successful in whatever you are doing is a continuous process. You have to keep learning and improving yourself. So, here I am helping you to get success through the following principles, widely practised and followed by most successful persons in the world:

1. FEED YOUR BRAIN WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS :

Most of the successful persons have positive results in their life through positive attitudes. Brain of a person plays a very important role in his life. It depends on the person how he feeds his brain with. Your brain is like an empty box, its depend on you what you store in it good knowledge, positive thoughts will lead to you to a better life and help you become a successful person in every aspect of your life.

It has been observed that if there are two persons, both are given same problem to solve but the difference is the first person is having a positive attitude and the second person is having a negative attitude. When they asked for the solutions, no doubt that both will come out with a solution but the first person seems to have a wider approach towards the solution and he comes with best possible solution. While on the other hand the second one will come up the limited answer, he will most of the time see only the negative aspects of the situation and his brain will not work as effectively as it would if he considers all the sides of the situation.

Hence to conclude that the first basic principle to have a successful life is to have a positive attitude and to feed your brain with positive thoughts and knowledge.

2. HAVE A GOAL :

The second principle of successful life is always to have a goal or aim in life to do or achieve something.

A person who works very hard all fay and night but does not have a target will lead to nowhere. All his hard work will result nothing.

Every person should have some sort of target which makes him jump out the bed every morning, which motivates him to work harder than the previous day, which gives meaning to his life.

3. CONTINUOUS IMPROVEMENT :

This is a very significant principle one should strictly follow to become successful person.

It is also known as continuous improvement cycle. You were wondering "Why Cycle?". The reason is it a never ending process. One should keep on improving oneself to achieve success.

There are four stages of this process :

STAGE 1. To IDENTIFY the Opportunities for improvement.

STAGE 2. To PLAN what improvements are needed in the current process.

STAGE 3. To EXECUTE the changes which you have planned.

STAGE 4. To REVIEW how the changes have been implemented and what more improvement one can achieve to work more better.

Everyone in his daily life also follow this process in some or the other way. For instance people are upgrading themselves with the latest technologies nowadays. Earlier people used to contact other using birds then after the invention of telephone they use telephone to communication and now mobile calling, video calling, video conferencing etc. There are many ways out now for communication and people are also improving themselves continuously.

This is just a live example, likewise we should improve ourselves in every aspect of life which help ourselves to face the new challenges in life.

So, to sum up I would say one should improve oneself continuously with the changes in time.

4. SELF CONTROL AND DISCIPLINE:

It has been greatly said that "Small good decisions will bring big great changes in life".

You might ignore the small daily habits in your life, whether good or bad, but these small habits have a great impact in your success. One should keep on developing good habits throughout his life.

Self control doesn't here means only to control the feelings but it has a lot to do with success. It has been observed that people with good control over their thought process, behaviour and emotions are seem to be more healthier, smarter, and successful.

Most of the successful persons follow a disciplined life, they follow healthy morning rituals, have a hobby in their lives to keep on their interest.

5. TIME MANAGEMENT :

Everyone have a limited life that means limited time. So, if you want to be successful you should be able manage and utilise your precious time in a most efficient and effective manner.

Here I am sharing you a small tip for effective time management.

You should first set your ultimate goal in life and then should set 3 month target, one of which should help you achieve your ultimate goal and then divide your monthly goal in weekly and then daily targets. You should kept the plan flexible and should review and update it weekly.

The most important tip for time management is STOP PROCRASTINATION . Procrastination here means the habit of delaying work. Procrastination, being ignored, is one of the major factor in not meeting your deadline of the work to be done. One should always be proactive.

6. HELPING OTHERS :

The second last principle which one should follow is to help other people. I am not saying you should help everyone but everyone should help someone in need. There is no loss if one helps other person instead he will gain something, one way or other, in return. The smile, the happiness, satisfaction that other person have will definitely give you inner peace which ultimately help you in your success in life.

We all know Knowledge increases by sharing it with others.

Hence, you should not only think about your happiness but also think of others, how you can add smile to others face. You don't even notice how a kind word, a small gesture of yours brings happiness, satisfaction to others.

"There is nothing bad in doing good to others".

7. LIVE NOW AND PRESENT :

Most of us spend ninety percent of our time in worrying about the future or thinking of the past, which will do no good. It will not help you to achieve success. It is good to plan for the future and it is also good to learn from your mistakes which you have made in the past but it is good only if you do it in controlled way.

If you cannot concentrate on the present moment try this little trick : say it or write it somewhere you can see "BE HERE NOW".

Meditation is also a great way to achieve control over thoughts and try to practise it regularly to achieve mental peace.

So, always remember this quick mantra of success "live the present moment and forget the past and future".

Hence, to conclude if one follow all these principles strictly, he or she will definitely achieve success. Remember, Success comes with hard work but along with hard work you should be smart enough.

Thanks.