Overcoming The Fear Of Socializing

Hi,

We human being consider ourself as social animal, that means one cannot spend all his life alone. Then also there are most of the people are Introverts, like to spend their time with himself. But many of the extroverts prefer to spend their time alone. The reason can be many like :

1. Criticism : Society nowadays have developed the habit of criticizing. Whatever you are doing, people around will definitely criticize you.
2. Gossiping : Some of the people not like gossiping and they also have the fear that people will also talk about him.
3. Judgemental : Yes, one of the fear is how people will judge you, what they think of you, Opinions of other, etc.
4. Formality : You have to be formal when you are with others. You can not be just you. One have to be sincere, disciplined, have to follow manners and etiquette.

These are some of the reasons which I felt and even experienced.

But One thing I observed is that the fear of socializing is more when one is going through a bad phase in life.

One should ignore all the above happenings and overcome the fear and just enjoy your time when you are with others.

You cannot control others thoughts and what others are saying or going to say, what you can control is your behavior and attitude towards it. Let others do their job and you should focus on you.

One should not give the remote control of one's life to others and them control him.

So, ignore others, only take in what you think is beneficial for you, take the criticism in positive way and try to be just you, do not change yourself for others.

Good Luck.